I know you are but what am I?

Recently I asked a few friends "If someone does you dirty and you allow them to do it to you a second time, does that make you a dumbass or the other person an asshole?"

Majority ruled (those of you that answered), 'the other person is an asshole'. One respondant even flew off on a 20 minute tangent. I struck a nerve for sure. I am guessing those who did not respond probably thought I was talking about you. Shame. You're so vain, I'll bet you still think this blog is about you. Don't you?! Anyway here are my two cents.

The other person is not an asshole, you're a dumbass. People show you who they are and just because you don't believe them it is not their fault. Yeah yeah folks deserve a second chance blah blah blah. But people don't change they just get better at who/what they are.

Check it - Some people believe in the three strikes rule. Ok I can get with that. But how many licks does it take for YOU to get to the center of your dumbass self? I'm just sayin...